My first time

I was ashamed of my virginity. I grew up in a school where girls just shy of 14 would brag about the number of boys they had been with. The farther you had been the cooler you were. And I hadn’t been very far at all.With strict religious parents enforcing the beliefs of no sex…

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Benefits and boundaries

Still adjusting to actually being friends with my friends-with-benefits I confuse lack of sex and missing his friendship for feelings.It started at Melbourne Cup with a white-girl-wasted mutual friend explaining that we are both being dickheads by not realising we have feelings for one another. “How would you feel if he slept with someone else?”…